a few of my clients are really struggling with major relationship issues right now. i have been spending a lot of time listening to he said/she said theorizing. the thing of the thing is, it is almost never so complicated or mysterious. things are generally what they appear to be. if she says she's going out with the girls and you run into her at a party with another guy; yup you guessed it, she's cheating on you.
i am personally not a big monogamist in theory or practice, but most people are. if you are one of them, stop agonizing. date the boy who acts like he wants to date you. ditch the girl that doesn't make plans. even if you aren't ready for the "real deal", the person you are with should be happy to be there.
life lesson...it really is that simple.
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