Showing posts with label change. Show all posts
Showing posts with label change. Show all posts

03 September, 2012

transplanting


labor day weekend- the final weekend of our traditional summer.
our calendars tell us there are a few more weeks until autumn officially sets in, but this weekend signals the end of our summer holidays with adults getting back to work, children heading into a new school-year. starting over… and as with all change, the end of something is really just the beginning of something new…
like plants grown from seeds - first placed carefully in a pot to sprout, then transplanted to a garden plot to spread out and grow taller, stronger, its roots reaching deeper in the ground - we too have the ability to adapt to new environments, to bear the elements and grow resilient and sturdier still.
uprooting a plant, ripping it free from the dirt that holds it and replanting it in new earth may appear traumatic, almost violent, but gardeners will tell you it is good for their roots. it gives them greater space and more nourishing soil. sometimes in the face of transition, we may feel like those plants. we may feel torn, vulnerable and confused moving from what we know to the unfamiliar and new. we may long for things to remain the same…until we remember that we too need new soil for our roots to grow deeper and stronger.
we are prepared to face a new season because of our experiences and knowledge from seasons past. in the face of change, when we are in the midst of a transformation, we are only becoming a more robust, durable and powerful version of ourselves.

03 May, 2012

if the shoe doesn't fit

when we were little, we had frequent growth spurts. one day our shoes fit, the next they were too small. our growth was physical as well as developmental.
now that we are adults, growth may not be as visible as getting too tall for our trousers. sometimes we outgrow relationships, careers, feelings and attitudes. this can be as confusing as waking up to shoes that don’t fit they way they did the day before. sometimes we may keep trying to squeeze ourselves into that dress, that job, that friendship or that belief…but it just doesn’t feel the same. what was once cozy now chafes. it just doesn’t fit us anymore.
just like when we were little - we have grown. as sad as it is to realize things we loved are no longer suitable for us, it is a sign of our continual evolution. it is okay to grieve for what we once cherished but is no longer so special or no longer works for us. It is also okay to want to put them aside and move on to what feels better for us today.
wrap up what doesn’t fit. say goodbye with love and respect for the role that these people, places, ideas and objects have played in your life. appreciate what they have done to help you get to where you are today. put away what doesn’t suit you and make room for the new.
*photo: walt disney's cinderella